Go Ahead She Isn't Looking! (2024)

FAQs

What to say when she says she is not beautiful? ›

Just keep it simple and say, that she is as beautiful as anyone can be and you don't seem to see anything wrong with her appearance. Don't make it over-dramatic or full of dialogues. Might sound not so real!

A great way to make her feel beautiful is to talk her through these insecurities. Assure her you think she's beautiful just the way she is. Let her know that the qualities that she dislikes about herself make her unique and that you find them beautiful.

Answer honestly and sincerely.

Try to come up with qualities you really value in a partner, then tell your date about them. If you two don't match up, it's better to know now than figure it out later. “I'm looking for someone with similar hobbies and interests.”

You could compliment her, praise her, express what you like the most about her, or also thank her and find her all smiles. Simple things like taking time out to write a good morning message for her will mean a lot. Not all girls want gifts and goodies; all they look for are little things in life.

Compliment her on looks, but also on her personality, her dress, her scent, and her grooming. Trying saying in you next conversation, “You are right! You're so smart.” Try more general compliments that reflect how happy you are with her, like “I'm so lucky to have a pretty girl like you” or "You make me so happy.”

Facial symmetry has been shown to be considered attractive in women, and men have been found to prefer full lips, high forehead, broad face, small chin, small nose, short and narrow jaw, high cheekbones, clear and smooth skin, and wide-set eyes.

The best response is to turn it back with a question. “Why in the world would you say that that?” Many people say they are not beautiful or good enough because they want to be reassured that they in fact are beautiful and good enough. If you know they know they are beautiful or good enough just agree with them.

When someone says you are not beautiful? ›

Stand up for yourself.

For example, say, “I don't know why you would call me ugly. Your opinion of how I look doesn't change who I am.” You can also say, “You are not the judge of what is beautiful. I see myself as beautiful because I know I am a loving and kind person.”